A photographic tribute to the women of India

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Many of India’s women continue to be abused, deprived of human rights, oppressed and downright subjugated. Yet they are strong and hard-working, friendly and sociable. They are patient and spiritual. What would India be without them? It’s time they were … Continue reading

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What’s the sense of travelling?

Communication I love this picture. It epitomises for me the sense of our travels. In this case our trip through the North of Thailand.

What exactly is going on here? I am sitting next to a lady from the Padang hill tribe, the so-called “long necks”. Actually, she invited me to sit down beside her and to be honest she was sitting too close to me for my physical comfort. That’s a purely cultural thing. The lady, whose name I never found out, was pleasant in every way; she had a lovely natural, clean smell and her breath had a slightly pepperminty scent.

We communicated via sign language for only a few moments and in that time we learned how old the other one was and how many children we each had. She also managed to let me know that the bonny baby on her eight year-old daughter’s lap was a neighbour’s child. The girl was concerned that the baby’s dress kept slipping up to reveal a naked bottom, which made us all laugh.

The padang lady obviously wanted to sell the scarves that the women of this tribe weave, but I was not interested and have long since stopped buying articles I don’t want. Nevertheless, even when she realised that I was no potential customer, she kept the communication going and appeared genuinely pleased to be doing so. We were just two ordinary women having a chat.

Communication is a wonderful thing and communication with peoples from other cultures desirable and valuable. It gives a wholesome meaning our journeys abroad.

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Magical Allgäu

P1000014It’s not every day that you capture magical glimpses of the pre-Alps. It’s not every day that the sun shines for a start. And you have to be pretty fortunate to catch the chiffony ribbons of cloud drifting in front of snow-capped mountains. So I felt extremely lucky indeed to also happen to have my camera at hand. It doesn’t matter where we travel to, we are always pleased and thankful that the Allgäu is the place we have made our home.

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Twerk and geek chic make the Oxford Dictionary – but which words would you add?

Twerk and geek chic make the Oxford Dictionary – but which words would you add?

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The pride of Sulzberg

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Praise for the village of Sulzberg! These magnificent, endemic wild flowers have been planted by our local council to decorate the traffic islands and welcome people to our village. Bright and colourful.  Simple and practical. Well done, Sulzberg!

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A European Twinning – Rise and Fall?

Sulzberg’s twinning with the French commune of Chailland in the département of Mayenne is 23 years old. For ten of these years, I have chaired the local association that supports the twinning and organises cultural activities and citizens’ trips, both in our German village and in Chailland. The work is voluntary and on the whole fulfilling, but can, at times, be frustrating.

Shortly after the signing of the Elysée treaty in 1963, when France and Germany decided to bury their differences and turn a negative inheritance into a positive cooperation, twinned towns and villages popped up like daisies. This turned into a popular development throughout Europe. In my home town of Skegness, a twinning with Bad Gandersheim in Germany was sealed in the eighties.

Swabia, in the South of Germany, and the Mayenne, in the North-West of France, signed their regional twinning in 1966 and 1967. After three years of “courtship”, Sulzberg and Chailland followed suite in 1990.

Twenty odd years ago, the world was a different place and we tend to forget how backward communication, in particular, was. Back in 1990, my husband’s company was starting to install computers in their offices. A couple of years later we bought our first home computer, an Amiga on which the eldest of our children did little more than paint and produce simple documents that were printed on those rolls of paper with a series of holes down the sides. In a word, computers were few and far between, so the communication between our village and Chailland took place via telephone calls, during which a certain degree of fantasy was required to fully understand what the other side were trying to say, or by letter, which were generally easier to decipher.

It was usually in the Rathaus or the mairie that the communication took place, between members of the twinning association committees or those working for the commune. Initially, the villagers themselves were not required to interact, though it was not difficult to find curious or adventurous souls to undertake the fourteen-hour coach journey across Europe to visit the twinned village. These trips were not expensive, since the European Union was keen to fund the citizens’ meetings, as they are still called. Not only in the name of peace, but also – and increasingly in fact – to encourage the European identity. The trips promised a touch of the exotic, a breath of something foreign. They were EXCITING!

The trips boomed, friendships blossomed, Europe grew and the idea of twinning started to be taken for granted.

Meanwhile, Sulzberg has a website and Chailland is working on one. We communicate almost entirely via email these days, with occasional Skype sessions among committee members. Our young people are more or less active in Facebook and Instagram, Facebook groups provide ideal platforms for the communication of information.

But not only the means of communication have changed dramatically.  The past couple of decades have seen an increase – nay, a regular flood – of affordable leisure opportunities. The European Union, however, with a whole series of new lands that need to be incorporated into the twinning scheme, has understandably narrowed down its generosity to the “old” countries. A trip to the twinned village, which has become more expensive,  no longer has the novelty it once wore. And besides, we are so busy working, sorting out our emails, ferrying the children to and from the leisure activities that will make them complete beings, singing in the choirs that have become so popular, keeping fit in the club round the corner, logging into umpteen networks and partying, that we cannot really afford to spend the time to take part in twinning events.

What’s more, owing to the changes brought about by youtube and discounters and mass tourism, the French way of life is no secret to Germans these days, just as the French know all about Germans and their habits. Baguettes and a good Bordeaux can be found in every Supermarkt, just as German Bier and Wurst are sold in any self-respecting French hypermarché. Germans readily greet each other with a kiss on each cheek and today, the French turn up to their appointments as punctually as the average Prussian. We have even started to take on each other’s characteristics!  In other words, we have undoubtedly become good neighbours and friends, but we have also reached the stage, after our silver weddings, of a faded, slightly stale relationship.

Thus the frustration that sometimes arises when reciprocal visits are due to be organised. It has become increasingly difficult to fill the coaches en route for Chailland, which raises the costs. Furthermore, the expectations of such a visit have risen; the exposure to a new household culture is, in itself, no longer a thrill. We know all about each other, our European friend and neighbour has become predictable and commonplace.

An estimated 300 citizens from Sulzberg have either visited a French family or hosted a French national in their homes since our twinning began. Friends, neighbours and family members of those who have taken part in the exchanges are also, secondarily, familiar with the habits and gestures and appearance of our European counterparts.  Haven’t we already achieved our goal?

I suggest it is time to look where we have come from and find out where to go from here. We have a situation in which the former enemy is not only a friend, but part of the family. We know all about him and have learned to accept him, have even adopted some of his habits and respect him for those which make him different from ourselves. We communicate via a few mouse clicks with those with whom we have a personal relationship. So do we still need twinnings?

Without a structure, I feel sure that the communication between our Gemeinde  and Chailland would slowly peter out. Perhaps it is no longer necessary to organise trips backwards and forwards between our villages. Those who wish to keep in touch will do so without the help of our association. And the habitual organisation of French-style cultural events, many of them designed as fund-raisers, may be entertaining for some of our German villagers, but they are neither vital nor novel and certainly no longer lucrative.  The occasional report about our French neighbour in our weekly bulletin and an organised visit now and again to commemorate some special event should suffice to keep the relationship going strong and let the mutual respect and acceptance that we have achieved breathe into our European future.

Twinning, yes. Association, maybe. Stress to preserve a concept which could, arguably, be outdated, no!

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Because (even) I can

When people – usually folk of my own generation – ask me why on earth I am starting a blog, my standard answer is: because I can.

Do you get it?

Right! Not quite, perhaps? Then let’s turn briefly to Machiavelli. The end justifies the means and so on. Now reverse the theory. In this case, the means justify the end.

One of the major reasons for getting involved with wordpress is in order to keep in touch with modern systems of communicating. I just do not want to wake up one day and have to ask myself where the rest of the world has moved on to while I have been nodding off in our small Bavarian village.

At the risk of never ever receiving a comment or even a read, I have at least battled through “dashboard” and co. in a lengthy battle of trial and error and can now admire the result. In my learning by doing exercise, the learning was really all that matters.

What becomes of the blog is really unimportant.  I have simply proved that almost anyone can set up his or her blog. Even me. 🙂

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